Gay in the Bay | Vol. 2023, Issue 22

Queer Intro

Welcome to the Gay in the Bay Blog! I am Josie, a queer writer and videographer that loves to document what I see around me. This started out as a writing blog but has grown to include events that more people should know about.

This post is for the week of

Do you have a live event that needs filming? I’m a videographer! Please check out the Sweeney Media on your way to the About > Contact page. I look forward to working with you.


How to Film the Golden Gate Bridge

I took a break from writing this past week. This isn’t to say I didn’t write a single word; I did, but everything feels stale. But what wasn’t stale was my first time lapse!

The Golden Gate Bridge is the most photographed bridge in the world. There’s just something alluring about this structure. I decided make the trek down to Marshall’s Beach and film a time lapse. Here's what I learned:

  1. Know your subject. This applies to the camera just as much as the subject itself. Questions to ask: what are you shooting? What exactly are you achieving here? This will apply for platforms; think film (fiction or documentary), commercial, or maybe a YouTube video. What format is required? Where does the customer want the shot? Questions such as these will help you figure out the best way to get that “money shot.” The more questions you ask the customer or yourself, the more prepared you will be.

  2. Learn the best time of year to film. June, to my surprise, is not the best time to film the GGB. The sun dips behind the mountains this time of year. Which, don’t get me wrong, this is still beautiful! But the light doesn’t hit the bridge the same way. Know when the sun will hit the bridge during the golden hour.

  3. Know your place. Location, location, location! I had no idea where a safe place was to set up. As a result, I was close to the steps (which is safe for me and my gear) but I wasn’t close enough to the water. The best commercial photos of the GGB looks like the camera is right on the rocks and water. But make sure the tide doesn’t take you out with it. Find a safe place to set up.

  4. Bring the right gear. This may vary between photographer and videographer. But I decided to bring my GoPro Hero9, a lightweight tripod, and a 5LBS sandbag. This may be different the next time I go out and film. But don’t expect every shoot to require the same amount of gear. Create a checklist of your gear and stick with it.

  5. Bring your boots. An off-shoot of #1. Going to Marshall’s Beach requires you to climb down a steep hillside. If you are like me, out of shape or have terrible lungs, you will know to take breaks on the way down and up. Getting a great landscape photo/video will require some hoofin’ it.

I am updating my portfolio, and beginning to learn more about marketing for myself and my photos/videos. It’s a great time to become more focused and find my target audience.

There were many people that walked in front of my camera, as you’ll see in the YouTube video I uploaded. But toward the end, someone approached me and asked me to take his photo with his parents. They had driven all the way from Yosemite to the edge of San Francisco. I felt like an NPC in their life journey that day. That is to say, something came about it, and it felt great. Now I know what to expect the next time I go out to film the Golden Gate Bridge.

There are photos and a couple of vlog-type videos below.


She’s a Witch!

Simona Kossak was considered a witch in her day. She was an incredibly smart woman who held a PhD in Biology, an author, photographer, and an uncompromising conservation activist. She refused to follow the trends and styles of her day. So it shouldn’t be a surprise that she was connected to being a witch.

Here, however, we focus on the incredible photos that she contributed to the world. There is an intimacy that we don’t often see in the wild outdoors. The very first picture we see has a boar sitting at (and on top of) a wooden table. This isn’t something we see very often. And if I’m being honest, this is something I would love to see more of; the wild and civilized being brought into a weird mish-mash of humanity living quietly with nature.

Simona was called a lot of things (witch, activist being two) that is oft considered negative. But they should be positive connotations, as they are things that bring us closer to nature. And that is something we could all have more of; including myself.

Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse (2023)

This isn’t a full review. It really couldn’t be, because I’d be far too biased toward this film. Quite frankly, this is my favorite animated film of all time. Yes, this even surpasses the original.

The joke I’ve had with everyone I’ve spoken to about this is: “They pulled a Matrix.” Meaning, the first film established the universe-skipping group of characters and the world in which they interact. Now, there is a duology of movies happening with almost too much going on. There are so many one-liners, references, and memes to keep count. And I can’t wait until the third movie, coming out next year.

Pop Culture

Each week I include media that I’ve enjoyed. If you’re a creator of any kind, please email me to be included in this list. I love discovering new artists; from singer-songwriters to upcoming directors, and beyond.


Gay in the Bay | Vol. 2023, Issue 11

Queer Intro

Welcome to the Gay in the Bay Blog! I am Josie, a queer writer and videographer that loves to document what I see around me. This started out as a writing blog but has grown to include events that more people should know about.

This post is for the week of March 12 - 18.

Do you have a live event that needs filming? I’m a videographer! Please check out the Sweeney Media on your way to the About > Contact page. I look forward to working with you.


Writing and Film

I’m physically and mentally exhausted after this week. I’m coming to terms with how fast I write (spoiler alert: it’s slower than I’d like), and that is just something I will learn to work with. If I were to create a Writer’s Scale, I’d be somewhere in between Steven King (fast as hell) and George Martin (painstakingly slow).

Writing — I am doing my absolute best to straddle the line between action and having stances. This is a pretty difficult thing to do, since this is my first time writing a superhero novel. But to also include LGBT themes is an even bigger challenge. I don’t want to spend too much time on exposition, even though that helps raise the stakes for my main character. But I also want the MC to start fighting the bad guys, too.

Film — I got the chance to help out with a student film shoot with Reel Oakland. They are a non-profit group that teaches filmmaking to high school students. I recently reached out to see if they might be interested in hiring me to teach, or at least lend my expertise. They are testing me out (my opinion, I don’t know their’s) to see if I’m a good fit. I was asked back for another day of shooting, which is a good sign. Hopefully this will work out. After all, I love talking about and teaching filmmaking of all formats.

This and last week’s posts came out a day late. Sorry! But it’s also because of how busy life has been. This is good news and I hope it will only continue. I would love to need to adjust this blog’s publication because of work. That much would be welcome. (As if writing multiple novels, working on YouTube videos, and searching for videography jobs was enough)


News

Filibuster over Trans Bill

The past few weeks have been stressful and disorienting for many, especially us in the Trans Community. Especially Trans Youth. The following articles are linked in the headings so they’re easier to find. Just as important: They are positive.

I’ve needed positivity lately, and the articles I found this past week were just that.


This is a journal site that provides the abstract of some interesting news about gender affirming surgery. And it is very different from what some politicians are claiming. This shows that there seems to be a lot of bias and cherry picking in the bills being pushed in Tennessee and other states. Link in the headline.


The Myth of “80% Detransitioning”

I found this article on LinkedIn about debunking a myth. The article is long, and my ADHD brain took breaks, but it’s very informative. Erin Reed concisely states why this myth started, who began these unscientific trials, and why these myths persisted. The full article can be found in the linked title for full details. The accounts are massive, and I would not do the article justice by recapping it in this blog.

Transgender youth could not meaningfully transition until recently. Medical care for trans youth was highly gatekept if not barred entirely. Transgender youth were rarely, if ever, afforded any form of treatment.
— Erin Reed

Usually I put a Color Coded Calendar here. This has, admittedly, become a bit for me to handle since I’m not on social media much right now. Still, I would still love to help out any local groups with their live events and help spread the word. Maybe, as the weather warms up, I can help advertise more of these events (and maybe even help capture them on film)!


Pop Culture

Each week I include media that I’ve enjoyed. If you’re a creator of any kind, please email me to be included in this list. I love discovering new artists; from singer-songwriters to upcoming directors, and beyond.

  • This TikToker found new life for her take out lids. Check out her new, niche hobby here.

  • Waffle House has an album record label! Find out here via this YouTuber’s journey and attempt to join the ranks. VIDEO.

  • I didn’t know how much I needed Japanese Funk and Soul until I found this YouTube video.


Review: Rom-Com

The phrase Romantic Comedy, or Rom-Com, used to bug me. Let’s explore that.

There’s no denying that Romances and Comedies are, at large, successful genres. So one would think that combining the two would be an even bigger success. Right? The answer to that gets a mixed result. What begins as a simple question turns into a mix of results, feelings, and opinions. A simple yes never seems to suffice. “Yes, because…” or “No, because…” generally follow.

Romantic Comedy… is a subgenera of comedy and slice-of-life fiction, focusing on lighthearted, humorous plot lines centered on romantic ideas, such as how true love is able to surmount out obstacles. —Wikipedia entry

I used to say the phrase, “I hate it because it sucks.” Which is one of the biggest cop-outs one can possibly state. There was a period of time where I wondered why nobody wanted to talk about movies with me. And it was because of that cop-out answer. There’s just no room for someone else’s opinion in a conversation you or I just closed.

The Rom-Com subgenera has always felt foreign to me. Possibly to do with the screwball scenarios and just how lightly we’re taking the emotions of these two people’s lives. Plus, they always felt forced to me. None of it made sense and it just felt fatalistic. Like these two fictional people had no autonomy of their own. (I just came up with the storyline of Stranger Than Fiction (2006).

My brain was just plain determined not to like this kind of movie. Until Love, Simon (2018). This movie is, at its core, a Rom-Com. I didn’t want to like it. But I did in the end. But why?

The most obvious aspect was the fact that Simon is gay and he’s going after another guy. But it was more nuanced than that. The comedy was more restrained and felt more natural. It didn’t feel forced in the initial viewing. And it felt like each character had personal autonomy. So I guess it has to be LGBT for me watch?

But another reason this phrase used to be obnoxious was the contraction. “Rom-Com.” For some reason my brain just doesn’t like it. It rubs me the wrong way. And if you say it too many times, it loses all meaning. Which is probably what happened when my parents introduced me to movies such as Titanic (1997) at a young age.

Romantic Comedies are beginning to grow on me, as much as I don’t like to admit it. Though the catch is: it needs to be LGBT. With a sigh, I have to give Romantic Comedies four stars.