Gay in the Bay | Vol. 2023, Issue 20

Queer Intro

Welcome to the Gay in the Bay Blog! I am Josie, a queer writer and videographer that loves to document what I see around me. This started out as a writing blog but has grown to include events that more people should know about.

This post is for the week of May 14 — 20.

Do you have a live event that needs filming? I’m a videographer! Please check out the Sweeney Media on your way to the About > Contact page. I look forward to working with you.


Writing

For the past several weeks, I’ve decided to focus on the spookier side of myths and legends. This is all research used for Project Madison Flame. Right after this will be more women’s bar names.

Spearfinger

Gather ‘round the campfire, kids! It’s spooky time!

This one I was not familiar with at all. The name may sound silly if you haven’t heard of this one. And I don’t blame you, because I did the same thing. But this is the only thing that’s funny about Spearfinger.

She is someone who has claws or knives for fingers. My view are the blade-like protrusions you see in certain horror movies these days. They are usually creatures that attack the protagonist, showing off the blades as they do so. Those kinds of knives. And she goes after children. She puts them under a false sense of security, eventually… unaliving them with her spear finger.

Something I’ve noticed about horror. The less details you get, the more people thing it’s silly; bordering into absurdity. But when enough details are added, the humor that arises disappears like a wisp of smoke or fog. Depending of what you say, things can get creepy fast.

Spearfinger has started haunting my daydreams lately. It’s because she’s in Project Madison, so it all makes sense. But having children protagonists that fall under what Spearfinger looks for is a bit unnerving. If you’d like a bit more details, and then-some, follow the links below…

Folklore

For next week, we ponder the sounds people hear at night. It’s not homework, but if you want even more to read, here is what I plan on talking about.


Bar Names

Bum Bum Bar — NYC

La Gata — Frankfurt, Germany; This bar, at the time of writing this, is open, and has been since 1971.

Chez Moune — Paris, France

New Moon — Paris France

The Owl and Pussycat — London; this bar, at the time of writing, is open.


History

I aim to get these posts out on Sundays, but I partied a little too hard. So it will need to come out a little late. I appreciate your patience with that.

Poetry Slime

Poetry Slime is a free form poetry slam, but without the competition. It’s a wonderful event that respects the mic, the vibes, and especially the readers. Meeting every third Saturday of the month at Milk SF, host Leland strives to create a creative space that doesn’t require alcohol.

Technically, this is history. It happened the day before the Bay to Breakers event, which happened the next day. And boy-howdy was the city of San Francisco crazy in their preparations.

Since I partied after Slime, I had to recover on Sunday. While I missed what was likely a great event, I’m glad I took the time to take care of myself. And this gets to my main point:

Drink your water.

Put on your sunscreen.

Take time for yourself.

The Presidio

So the here is where I’ll share some photos from a visit at the Presidio. Look, we all geek out about something. This day (which was very sunny, seriously don’t forget your sunscreen when in SF) I had helped repair an analog camera (DM if interested) and decided to visit the Presidio. I had looked for a Yoda Statue at the LucasArts Art School. And wow, is it a secretive statue! It’s out of the way, so it’s an interesting challenge to find it. Afterward, I took some photos of a couple of other landscapes.

All photos are attributions belong to me, Josie Sweeney.


Harriet the Spy

The New Yorker has this amazing article on the queer feminist author of Harriet the Spy. This has me wanting to read the books (never got the chance as a kid) and rewatch the movie. Link in headline.

Reel Oakland Student Film Festival

I’m volunteering for a couple of film festivals!

I used to volunteer for the Indie Memphis Film Festival. Since I’m no longer in Memphis, I cannot help them out anymore. I’ve lived here for a year now, and have begun asking around for film festivals to volunteer for; with great results.

The first one is the Reel Oakland Student Film Festival 2023. I will be in charge of presenting everything folks see on the silver screen. The presentation points, volume, films, everything was considered and discussed. And I will be in charge of it all. The next festival won’t be ready for another few months.

If you would like to help support this non-profit, you can find the link in the headline.

National News

Supreme Court Kicks the Can

In an article by Reuters, we learn that SCOTUS had received a lawsuit against Google (this was about the practice of their video-sharing). They must have decided it wasn’t worth their time, because they aren’t going to make a decision on it. They have kicked the proverbial can down the road by stating that this can be decided on a state level.


Pop Culture

Each week I include media that I’ve enjoyed. If you’re a creator of any kind, please email me to be included in this list. I love discovering new artists; from singer-songwriters to upcoming directors, and beyond.

Last Thing Last

I didn’t have a good place to put these, but still wanted to share.

I’ve started a new hobby! I’m looking at cameras that have issues or are very dirty. The Canon camera was brought to a beach and needed a good deep clean. The Nikon has an autofocus issue, and the customer has chosen me to help with that. And the last one? Well, I have a new shirt for PRIDE, and happened to match Milk SF at Poetry Slime.


Gay in the Bay | Vol. 2023, Issue 10

Queer Intro

Welcome to the Gay in the Bay Blog! I am Josie, a queer writer and videographer that loves to document what I see around me. This started out as a writing blog but has grown to include events that more people should know about.

This post is for the week of March 5 - 11.

Do you have a live event that needs filming? I’m a videographer! Please check out the Sweeney Media on your way to the About > Contact page. I look forward to working with you.


Writing

Writing has been difficult only because of depression and the constant dread known as Atmospheric River Bob looming over us. That simile of the cloud hanging over someone has been a bit too literal. But I’m not letting this keep me from gettin’ them words down!

I found a note-taking method that really surprised me and immediately picked up. The Zettelkasten Method will seem complicated at first, especially when trying to incorporate this into a digital platform such as Notion. So far this works pretty well with the my Notion. I'd like to expand upon this in a later post, as it deserves its own space for explanation; plus, there appear to be a million videos on it.

I did it. I quit social media. Let me explain.

Last week I wrote about my friend being arrested by police after voicing her opinion about an anti-drag bill. Early on in the week I just couldn’t take all the news (partly why the post was short). I took this manic time to essentially sign out. The only exceptions were to respond to messages on Instagram or Facebook (the two socials left, unless you count LinkedIn). I’m on Twitter, but that’s only watch that empire fall.

I’ve checked them once or twice today to send messages. There were a couple of videos that I watched, and an update on my cousin’s pregnancy (she’s doing great, thanks for asking). Otherwise I had no interest in seeing anything else on there. And I kinda want to keep it that way.

I want to continue this. I feel like some of my attention span has come back. Well, as much attention as someone with ADHD can have.


Even More Expensive Headphones!

Move over, expensive computers! Step aside, American-made headphones! France now has the most expensive headphones yet. I really wonder how much Parker Hall got paid to say nothing but good things about the Focal Bathys Headphones.

Why do we need to keep making expensive headphones. Yes, many of us are audiophiles now, thanks to the like of Apple, Bose, Sony, and other companies. But France wants to beat them to our wallets.

I’m personally pretty worn out with “ultimate headphones” and similar descriptors. We’re just reinventing the wheel at this point. I think Wired is going for a younger audience than me, because I’ve heard the exact same marketing since I got into Walkmans (I’m a 90’s kid, for reference).

I know I’ve successfully made this sound like an auditory conspiracy. But I’m just glad I can focus on smaller things, such as the $800 price tag for this pair of headphones. I’ll save up for a new computer or gaming system for that much. Not headphones.


Local News

Court rejects religious exceptions for Covid vaccines. Even now, after three years have elapsed, some still believe that they get religious exemptions from everything. Well, not today.

Missouri News

Missouri Republican attempts to use a Bill to prohibit the acknowledgement of “sexual orientation” from being mentioned in schools. Her bill is then torn apart by another Republican because of the Bill’s language. It seems she believed that sexual orientation did not apply to a man and a woman.

“She knows full well that the intent of this bill is not to protect kids in a classroom. It is just to discriminate against the LGBT Community, and to parade her Christianity all over the place… She is incapable of keeping her Christianity to herself.”

Brian Tyler Cohen’s video on YouTube.


Color Coded Calendar

Each week I keep track of events so you don’t have to! This is amazing since I’m neurodivergent. But below are events that I really think you’ll enjoy…

Each week The New Parkway Theater in Oakland has a variety of events. The two that I love the most are Drinks & Dragons (Wednesdays) and Trivia (Thursdays) respectively. I am officially a new Game Master, and want to help make D&D more fun at the New Parkway. Check out The New Parkway website for further information on these and other events. You cannot go wrong no matter what day you show up.

Local Events

Queer Bedtime Stories is hosted at Milk SF this Thursday at 8pm.

Poetry Slime is hosted at Milk SF this Saturday at 2pm.


Pop Culture

Each week I include media that I’ve enjoyed. If you’re a creator of any kind, please email me to be included in this list. I love discovering new artists; from singer-songwriters to upcoming directors, and beyond.

  • A friend mentioned a YouTuber in a discussion: Jenny Nicholson. She talks about theme parks and other things. I couldn’t get enough of her video on Evermore (and that’s a big video).

  • I found a new way to take notes today (Thursday). It’s called the Zettelkasten Method, and you can learn about it from this video here. I’m already implementing it to compile my research for video essays.